Hi, I'm Kim – a dog lover, an optimist, and a romantic. A Cleveland enthusiast. I work in Marketing. I love Taylor Swift almost as much as I love the color pink. And I believe in fairytales. (Yes, they really exist).
In fact, about 4 years ago, I met my prince - Dan. Our first date was at Starbucks in the very trendy Warehouse District in downtown Cleveland. Several fun and exciting dates came in the weeks to follow all around the city. And so our love story began…
Four years later, Dan and I live in a beautiful home - with the most amazingly cute dog, Diesel. Oh, and a fearless cat named Oliver. A cute little family I’d say. Then one day, we went for our daily walk. As we stopped by a charming little creek, I notice Diesel all of a sudden has a jewelry box tied to his neck. When I looked up, Dan says "It's a love story, baby just say yes!".
Dan (and Diesel) had just proposed to me! (with lyrics from my favorite Taylor Swift song nonetheless). And in a blink of an eye, we were engaged! And so our love story continued…
We spent the next year planning what was the BEST day of our lives! Armed with an absolutely gorgeous venue in our hometown of Cleveland, a breathtaking Cinderella dress, and the most handsome Groom I’ve ever seen, we had a pretty damn awesome wedding. Most of our guests described the day as something out of a storybook. A day filled with romance, elegance, and love. A modern day fairytale if you will.
And so, on June 6, 2014, our love story continued…
A Storybook Venue
We hosted both our wedding ceremony and wedding reception at the beautiful historic Tudor Arms Hotel in Cleveland, Ohio. When we saw the venue for the first time, we were speechless. Completely speechless. It was gorgeous. Stunning in fact.
Built in 1931, The Tudor Arms retains all of the classic charm from its era. Embellished with Old World architecture and stunning 35-foot ceilings, tall glass windows, and beautiful murals, this venue is breathtaking. It has two unique ballrooms along with an exquisite sitting room in between decorated with over sized 1920s furniture and a cozy fireplace.
Quite frankly, it was perfect. We could host all of our guests comfortably in one single venue. And a beautiful one at that. We signed a contract immediately and in the blink of an eye, we had a wedding date and a wedding venue. Wow, that was easy.
So we had a bride, a groom, a wedding date, and a venue. Now we needed to invite the guests! Easy, right? Not so much.
I’ll admit after hours and hours of addressing, stuffing, sealing, and stamping all the invitations, I was one happy gal to get them done. FINALLY, I could send these invitations!
I call my Mom to share the excitement and this is how the convo went…
Me: SOOOO excited to take these to the post office. They are stamped and ready to go. It took me a whole month to get all these together!
Mom: That’s fantastic, but you do know postage went up last week, right?
Total fail. I had the wrong postage! Oops.
The post office offers us a solution to add a 4 cent stamp to each envelope and make up the difference. There was one, and only one, option for a 4-cent stamp…the “Chippendales” stamp. Yes, I said Chippendales.
Seriously? A Chippendales stamp? On a wedding invitation? After my mini-meltdown (Dramatic, I know, but I was caught in the moment), Dan got me to laugh the whole thing off and we went with it. And Guess what? No one noticed. No one cared. Moral of the story? Move on. Don’t sweat the small stuff.
Oh, The Hoop!
So, how many gals does it take to put the Brides dress on? In our case….it took two bridesmaids, a Matron of Honor, a frantic phone call to the Seamstress, and a YouTube video.
Okay, I’ll admit, I didn’t have the most practical dress (but who does?) This princess-like ball gown had nine layers of tulle. Yep, nine layers. It also had a hoop skirt underneath. Which none of us could figure out how to put on correctly – well, without me tripping over it at least.
If I wanted to make it down the aisle without face-planting, we needed a fix. No worries, the gals are on it. Robyn is on the phone with Olga, the seamstress. Ang is on YouTube searching for ‘how to tie a hoop skirt’ videos. Kacia is trying to remember how the heck we had put it all together during the final fitting. Oh, and I’m standing there in nothing but a thong. (Awkward.)
After several attempts, we finally figure it out and get everything on pretty well. I was now confident I could walk down the aisle without face-planting it. YES! We were off! Just in time for the ceremony to begin…
The Ceremony’s “Surprise” Guest
Our dog, Diesel, is our world. So we were bummed that we couldn’t have him there with us for the wedding. Little did we know that our officiant (Dan’s sister, Terri) had a little surprise for us.
As Terri began the ceremony with her opening remarks, she said someone ‘important’ was missing and we couldn’t begin without him. We knew she was talking about Diesel. Everyone starts whispering and turning their heads, expecting Diesel to come barreling through the door and down the aisle to us.
Then the Father of the Groom pulls out this poster of Diesel and places it at the alter right next to us. They propped up this portrait of Diesel so he could “sit” next to us during the ceremony! It was so cute! It was definitely a hot topic of conversation the rest of the night.
Rehearsal Dinner Nightmare
Every couple has one thing that goes wrong. Just expect it. Here’s ours…
Excited to show off Cleveland, we decided to host our rehearsal dinner in historic Little Italy. What better place for a home cooked meal, right? So we booked a private banquet room at Maxi’s in Little Italy for our group of 25 out of town guests. We even selected a customized dinner and drink menu in advance. This was going to be one fantastic dinner!
Except…when we arrived, the hostess told us the room was not ready yet. Ekkkk! They had booked another party in the banquet room just before ours. They said not to worry - the other group was wrapping up and asked us to wait just a few minutes. Okay, we can handle that.
So there we were....25 of us, all dressed up, standing outside on the curb of Maxi’s waiting to get into the banquet room. After 20 minutes of waiting, we were anxious. After 30 minutes, we were frustrated. After 45 minutes, we realized the other party wasn't even done with their dinner yet. We were fed up, frustrated, and embarrassed. Not to mention hungry. Clearly, we weren't getting into the banquet room any time soon. Time for Plan B!
Luckily, my fabulous bridesmaids and my amazing husband took charge and got us in across the street at Gusto where they took us in, sat us, and made a delicious meal in no time. The Accordion player even played for us to provide upbeat entertainment. They saved the day for us and our wedding weekend was back on track!
Our Love Story Continues
All in all, we had quite the awesome wedding experience and it was beyond anything we could have ever imagined. We couldn’t be happier. Were there frustrating, awkward, and funny I Guess I Do moments along the way? Absolutely. Was it all worth it? Absolutely. Best part of it all? I got to marry my best friend.
Photographer: Manda Wakeman Ceremony, Reception, and Overnight Accommodations: Tudor Arms Hotel Dress: Allure Romance via Catan’s Bridal DJ: Herby Loftin aka DJ Smoov Florist: Roses for Weddings Cake: Wild Flour Bakery Hair and Makeup: Ladies and Gentleman Legacy Village Invitations and Stationary: Wedding Paper Divas